Reconciling Conversations

The Reconciling Conversations Group is part of a growing group of United Methodist individuals, congregations, campus ministries, and other groups working for the full participation of all people--including lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people--in the life of the life and ministry of the church.

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Boyd Holliday: Warm Welcome from a Small Church

Once I was pastor to a small congregation that consisted mostly of farm families, in an area that was rapidly being surrounded by new suburbs, so some of the newcomers found our congregation and liked the friendly atmosphere.
Two young men started visiting our congregation on a fairly regular basis, and it was obvious they were a couple, sitting closely together in the service. I had no idea how the members would respond, but very quickly I saw that it did not seem to matter to anyone.
Not long after they started attending, one of the men began to get very sick. His AIDS was no longer responding to treatment. Members of the congregation brought them bread and soup and ran errands for them.

To me this incident dispels the impression that only large, urban congregations are welcoming. It can be found everywhere.